BUCHAREST, Romania –The sight of the boy shocked me. Maybe it was because of the focus of our trip. Maybe it was the hour, just 5 a.m. Or maybe it was how he smiled at me. All I knew was that just five steps into my run here, I stopped when I saw him.
He was of Roma descent; his clothes
were a dull color, dulled by dust. His eyes almost shone. He couldn’t have been
older than five. Nearby, a woman and a young girl were sitting on a large piece
of cardboard, their bed, against a building. All were fully alert. I stood just
a few feet from the boy, expecting him to beg for money. He didn’t. We just looked
at each other, and he smiled. In a few seconds, I started again, and he gave me
a shy wave. I waved back.
We had traveled to Bucharest partly
to learn more about the Roma people, also known as gypsies. The night before we
had met about 10 Roma college graduates who had received scholarships and who
spoke of their great aspirations to succeed in a variety of fields – diplomacy,
architecture, development, law. We left feeling very hopeful of their futures.
But the boy was another story. I
turned a corner and I saw another family of Roma, and then a third, all awake,
and several children moving around with great ease as if the streets of Bucharest
were their livingroom, even at 5 a.m.
I turned off the narrow streets and
descended down a darkened path into a park. Birds called out from the trees,
frogs from the ponds. Birds always seem the noisiest just before dawn;
Bucharest’s birds were deafening.
And yet, on park benches along the
way, many homeless slept right through the calls of the urban wild, blankets
pulled to their ears to ward off the chill, and perhaps the sound. There was
other movement here, too. Every few minutes, men emerged from the shadows as I
ran by, and it felt like I was in a medieval European city with the darkness
hiding secrets.
In my back pocket was a map of the
city, which had large areas of green, delineating the city’s numerous parks. I
stopped under a light to find my location. I had gone from one park to a second,
making several zig-zags, and yet I felt strangely at home. I felt confident of my
way even though I had never been here before.
I ran around the Palace of the Parliament,
a grand structure in neoclassical architectural style (and built with thousands
of tons of marble from Transylvania) that sits atop a hill, surrounded by a
park and wide boulevards. Weeds grew on the lower lawns. There wasn’t a guard
in sight.
Then, I headed back to my hotel, taking
solace in the parks. The birds had mostly gone quiet. The sky had started to
light up. I looked up and saw a long bright pink contrail from a plane. It was
a startling vision, like a dash of lipstick on the sky, and I ran on, looking
up every few seconds. I was getting used to unusual sights in Bucharest.
Near my hotel, I passed the spots
where I had seen the Roma families. They had left, removing all evidence of
their presence, including their cardboard. I wondered about that boy. I wished
I had seen him again. I’m not sure what I would have done, or why seeing him
would be better than not. But it felt like a loss. Perhaps because the shock of
seeing him had worn off, and I knew his future, like that of so many street
kids around the world’s cities, was bleak. I returned to my room with my
thoughts stilled and my mood saddened.
Hmmm, as I understood it John was out for a run, not a tour, and I don't know the full purpose of his trip to that country. Knowing him, it will likely be worthwhile on several levels. I wouldn't rush to judgement.
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